If folks think that maintaining a positive attitude in today’s world comes easily, I can assure them that it isn’t.
When we are enveloped in such blatant cruelty to other human beings—strafed daily with offensive, verbal assaults on our person and our differing ideas—staying positive through all of THAT is quite a trick.
Every morning we have to armor up and set our defensive shields to “DEFLECT” just to make it through the day. That’s a little sad, don’t you think? (Insert SAD- face emoticon here for emphasis.)
Yesterday I watched a lovely, gentle person I know try to defend her immigration/child separation Facebook posts against cruel, heartless comments that countered her message. I offered my simple “HEART-LIKE” (insert HEART emoticon here) to her just to let her know that I stand with her, if only from a distance; but at the same time I know that when we engage on social media with people who strongly disagree with us and disagree with who we are as loving individuals, then they are NOT really our friends, even though they might be on our FRIENDS list.
And if we can’t handle their unkind comments, then we must either remove them as our FRIENDS or stay off the PUBLIC airwaves—it’s that simple. But then it isn’t really simple, is it? In fact, it’s a large, complex issue that isn’t going away anytime soon.
Unfortunately the level of venom in today’s public discussion has reached such fever pitch that it’s like watching a foot-long hotdog being torn apart by two ravenous dogs. Something’s gonna give there—and within seconds that once-whole hotdog will never be seen again—at least in the same form that it previously was. (Insert “ICK!” emoticon here.)
How can we be positive about the present state of our declining human condition?
A couple days ago I heard someone on a news show discussing what was happening to our sense of civility in general; and this person said something that I agree with: We are in an unmasking period in human interaction where the “shadow-side” of human nature is rising to the surface for all to view and assess. No more pretending to “tolerate” others. (Never did like that word “tolerate”)
I agree. Clearly we don’t tolerate dissension now. We don’t tolerate views that differ from our own. We don’t tolerate people who do not look like us or act like us, or talk like us. We don’t rise above our prejudices or biases—we embrace them, right? We remove the mask and say “Hey those of YOU who do not look or think, or act like me, … I hate you! And I’m proud of hating you! So there! Deal with it!”
As we now look closely at that unmasking of our deepest and darkest human natures, we say, “Yes, bigotry and prejudice, and racism, and homophobia, and xenophobia, etc….YES, …these all exist in our present world society and in each of us to some degree; and we are not as culturally and consciously advanced as the civilized people that we once believed our nation and the people who compose it, were thought to be. We are barbarians still—pure and simple—we are still immersed in our primal fears of scarcity and fears of personal annihilation, and we are incapable of rising above those fears!”
We fear “otherness” in general, and in today’s permissive environment we act out those fears in the most putrefying and nauseating ways imaginable.
And that’s not just emoticon “SAD-face” folks—that is emoticon horrifying! (Insert that nasty thing here.)
But yet, ….the POSITIVE from this great unmasking is that people can no longer hide behind who they once pretended to be—because they have been unmasked–unmasked by themselves in all their acrimonious glory–they have all exposed themselves for their true feelings on just about every imaginable subject—whether you wanted to know them or not.
(Insert big “SMILEY-face” here.) ……
No, …that’s the “GAG-me” emoticon.